We aren’t designed to feel bad about anything
Summary: Feeling bad is a net negative for a human being from a physical and mental health perspective. The fact that humans feel bad
Caring what people think
The solution to this is very similar to what we recommend in our approval-seeking solution. We encourage you to review that solution and ask us any questions.
Self-consciousness
Self-consciousness is the phenomenon of analyzing one’s actions against several social rules about what is and isn’t acceptable. Self-conscious individuals often knowingly or unknowingly
Anxiety
Overcoming anxiety is really a game of neutralizing and eliminating one's physical anxiety triggers. This guide will teach you everything you need to play
Overcoming the Fear of Being Anxious
At the root of this fear is the often unknown belief that being or getting anxious is unacceptable. This often unconscious belief instructs your
Getting self-conscious when interacting with others
By self-conscious, we mean thoughts like “Do I look comfortable,” “I look uncomfortable,” or “I don’t sound confident or socially skilled.” There may be
Social Anxiety Solution: Being perceived
This solution will also help if you struggle with being watched, observed, judged, or analyzed. Everyone has unique reasons why this is an issue
How to handle not knowing what to do
In some cases, you may have been taught or observed that not knowing what to do is unacceptable. Because of this, whenever you don’t know
Social Anxiety Solution: Others Seeing You Anxious
You may see this as downright unacceptable, but you likely have reasons why you see it as unacceptable. For example, you may think that
Social Anxiety Solution: Getting Anxious When Someone Ignores You or Others
You may unknowingly view this as a reason to be anxious because you don’t think anyone should ever do this to others. You may
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Solutions for Common Social Anxiety Triggers
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Why thinking something is unacceptable triggers anxiety
Summary: Whenever you label something as unacceptable, you are knowingly
MDs, psychologists, stoics, and best-selling emotional intelligence authors who’ve clinically validated that anxiety is caused by beliefs
Note: These individuals have validated through research and their line
Personal Construct Psychology – Loaded Terms
What is a loaded term? When addressing the root cause